Over the years, we have seen thousands of sex trends come, and some of them quickly leaving the sex scene. A few, though, have managed to withstand and are still pretty popular. We can talk of BDSM, golden showers, and a bunch of other sex trends that seem to have become a usual part of the sex conversations. There is a sex act that has been there for quite a while but has recently made it to the mainstream sex trend: pegging!
Pegging has been there for a while. The practice dates back pretty much to the time when the first dildo and strap-on were made. People were doing it behind closed doors but were not keen to have a conversation about it. Things seem to have taken a turn, though. Over the past few years, pegging has been dominating the sex conversation thanks to Deadpool and porn. If you are not accustomed to this premium act of sexual pleasure, you have come to the right place. We are going to be discussing what pegging is and why it could be the best thing that can happen to you sexually.
What Is Pegging?
The first question that we have to address is the question of what pegging is. The act has been in existence for quite a while, and the definition has morphed quite many times. In the early days, pegging was simply when a woman wears a strap-on with a dildo at the end and penetrates her male partner. It was the initial definition. Sexual liberty, lots of sexual freedom, and sex toy advancement have resulted in the definition changing over the years.
The original definition of pegging was gender-defined. The new one has done away with the gender specificity. As long as there is a strap-on and anal penetration, what you are doing is pegging. The definition of pegging has become broad, and it means that it is a must-have in any sex diet.
Reasons for Pegging
The main reason why people participate in pegging has to be for pleasure. With sexual exploration at an all-time high, people are bound to find inventive ways to sexually pleasure themselves.
Pegging for the Giver
If you are at the firing end of the pegging exercise, you are bound to get a good serving of pleasure. If you are a female and have a clitoris, the friction between the clitoris and the dildo end is enough to get you to orgasm. The sensation is pretty much the same as dry humping but better. Your partner’s moans and physical attraction will elevate that dry humping experience. If you are using a penis sleeve, however, there is still a lot of pleasure from there. A penis extender is sensitive enough to allow you a piece of that sensation. It makes it a win for both parties in the act. The best part is you can choose the penis size you and your partner prefer – that is a huge bonus.
Pegging for the Receiver
The main reason why pegging has become one of the most popular sex acts is that in terms of pleasure, it is uncontested. Pegging has been known to be one of the most pleasure-centric acts in the bedroom. It is especially true for males. The anal cavity has a lot of nerve endings, and if you want to get the full pleasure bouquet, it is certainly the go-to place. With pegging, you get to choose the size of the sex toy, material, and, well, the person doing the plucking. All these make pegging a premium experience.
Tools Required for Pegging
Pegging is simple if you have all the right tools in place. Several tools are essential for maximum pegging pleasure. We will be looking at all you need to get pegging underway. Before we get to the proper procedure on how to do pegging. Let us get you accustomed to all the tools you need.
A Partner
One thing that is essential for pegging is a partner. That is a no-brainer, right? Well, we just thought we would reinforce it and make it clear that pegging is a team sport. The most essential thing is a willing partner. Everything else will fall into place easily. With how sexually liberated the world has become over the years, finding a partner to “peg” with should be light work. Some dating sites even have categories for acts like pegging. If you are keen on trying it out, and you don’t have a partner, just log into the internet and find the perfect “peg” partner.
A Harness
Pegging misquote common in heterosexual relationships. One thing that might not readily be available in the relationships is a harness. It is the centric point of pegging. There are different types of harnesses out there and perfect dildos for pegging to go with them. Finding a perfect-fitting harness should not be that difficult. The best part about using a harness is that you can use multiple dildos, depending on your preference and mood. We recommend a harness if you already have a dildo. That way, even if you want to use the tool for solo play, you will not struggle.
There are underwear harnesses and strap-on harnesses; these two variants serve the purpose perfectly. The only difference might be a preference. An underwear harness falls to the wording: they look like underwear. The main advantage is that they are comfortable and allow you a greater degree of freedom on the pegging circuit. The only downfall is they are not as adjustable as strap harnesses.
A strap-on harness is adjustable. It can fit loosely or somewhat very tight. Depending on how rough the ride will be, you can choose your perfect fitting. In terms of comfort, though, they kind of lost to the underwear harness.
Strap-on
A strap-on is a viable option if you are not for the harnes+dildo combo. A strap-on is a combination of both. You do not have to struggle with selecting both items. A strap-on is a perfect choice for beginners. If you are not accustomed to the sex toy market, we advise that you go straight for a strap-on. A strap-on is one of the best sex toys for pegging, and if you choose the one, you will not go wrong. Getting to know how to use a strap on is easy, and it’s clear from its look.
Lube
The anal cavity is not self-lubricating. It means the going might get a little painful. It is especially important for first-timers. The fact that you will not be using an actual penis means that there is no lubrication from the giver’s side too. It means that you need all the lubrication you can get. There are multiple brands of lube out there, you are practically spoilt for choice.
Depending on the type of dildo you are using, you can choose your preferred brand or type of lube. We recommend water-based lube, though; it tends to work pretty well with most sex toys and avoids allergies or infections. If you prefer oil-based lube, there is nothing wrong with it. Just be sure to check if it will not affect your dildo or strap-on. It is also essential to consult your physician before choosing the lube you want to use.
How to Do Pegging
Now that we have discussed everything, you need to find out how to prep for pegging and practice it with maximum pleasure and safety.
Talk to Your Partner
The first thing that you need is to get consent from your partner. If you are keen to try it out and have fun with your partner, you have to bring it up in a way that will not offend or scare them off. If they are conservative, you have to start the conversation a little early on and progressively introduce pegging to them. Be sure to make it clear that it will be both pleasurable for them and you. There is also a need to reassure them that it will not affect them if done right.
Foreplay is Everything
For first-timers, the pegging experience might not come out as expected. It is why it is essential to make sure that your partner is aroused before going about the act. If you are not aroused enough, it might be painful and, well, not as pleasurable as you would expect. Jumping straight into the dildo anal action is wrong. Do not do it!
Try fingering to stretch the anus for a bit. Most dildos are large, and although we recommend starting small, you might want to do it a little differently. It is why foreplay is everything. It also stimulates your partner as well as you. It makes it easier for the nerves to pick up pleasure sensations, and that is one thing you need for a successful pegging session.
If you are feeling explorative, we recommend that you top off the fingering with a rim job. Rimjobs are to an anal sex session what oral sex is to regular sex. A rimjob will stimulate your partner and make them horny enough for a blast of an anal session. Rimjobs are extra special, and everyone deserves one. Make sure you get your partner to give you one. If it’s done right, you might even climax before you get to the anal action. And that will make the anal action even more exciting. If the foreplay is right, the game is bound to be better.
Fit it Properly
The last thing that you want when you are pegging is your strap-on or harness continuously falling out of place. It will kill the rhythm and, in the end, dampen the pegging session. Make sure that your harness over your strap is well adjusted and well-fitting. If you are using a harness, make sure that your dildo is in the correct place. Try to make sure your dildo size is compatible with your harness. It will prevent your dildo from falling off mid-action. If you are tightly fitted, the next step is making sure you get to the pegging.
Get Pegging!
Once you are well-fitted, get your partner in a position they are comfortable in. Make sure you get them some pillows for the elbows and knees if they will be kneeling to ensure that they don’t get cramped up.
Start penetrating slowly with the lubricated dildo. It might start as painful: it is essential to take it very slowly, especially in the early stages. Get a rhythm going, and then, go ahead and peg till you drop.
You can always spice things up by switching positions and dropping other sex toys like vibrators and nipple clamps. Better, you can even switch positions and exchange roles. If your male partner fails to get their way around the strap-on or harness, you can always use penis sleeves – they’ll do a pretty good job!
Clean Up
After a sex session that involves pegging, make sure you clean up. It will make sure you stay hygienic and will also help prevent STIs. If you use protection, it is still equally essential to clean up. Clean your sex toys and make sure that you disinfect them for future use. You mustn’t share sex toys, even with your partner. Make sure that if you decide to share, you use condoms or make sure that you thoroughly disinfect them before use.
Pegging is on the extremes of the sex spectrum. It might not be your partner’s cup of tea, but you can always try and convince them, though, and get the best pleasure offers. Make sure that you enjoy your pegging and keep it safe. Enjoy pegging!
