G-spot vibrators are meant to guarantee a G-spot orgasm (duh). Not only they are pleasant to use but also versatile. These vibrators are great both for penetration and masturbation. Nevertheless, not all women believe in the power of these toys. It’s because there’s not much talk about G-spots.
Do They Really Exist?
Believe it or not, but G-spots exist. Moreover, it was confirmed scientifically in 2014 by a group of US scientists from the Institute of Gynaecology. They conducted the research and tested eight women on the anatomical existence of the G-spot.
In most of the participants (87.5%), the G-spot was situated in a diagonal plane on the left. The other 12.5% were spotted to have the G-spot in a diagonal plane but on the right. The study buried the myth that there is no such thing as G-spots once and for all. But do all the women know about it?
Another group of scientists from Turkey has found that 1 out of 2 women don’t know about the existence of the G-spot. The scientists asked 309 participants, aged 18-54, and found out that, in most cases, women without proper education (less than high school) disagreed with the fact that G-spots exist.
What does it tell us? That people lack sex education and don’t know what to do with their orgasms. However, we’re here to help. Once you’ve made sure that the G-spots exist, it’s time to learn how to hit it.
How to Hit My G-spot?
If this is the question you ask yourself now, this article is for you. You see, there are so many ways to stimulate the G-spot like fingering or vaginal sex. Also, you can seek help applying dildos, vibrators, and other sex toys that allow penetration.
The G-spot is situated about 2-3 inches above the entrance to the vagina. However, you need to know that not all women have the same position of the G-spot. Thus, you need to find your G-spot yourself. There are many ways to do it, including trying out different sex positions.
Some people say that the G-spot is of bean size. Fingers can spot this area since it feels like a little bump. Other women say that when they touch the G-spot, they immediately want to pee. This is natural since our brains need some time to differentiate between the urge to pee and sexual arousal.
Okay, I’ve Found My G-spot. What Now?
Now, it’s time to satisfy your needs. To be honest, not all women can find their G-spots quickly. Sometimes, it takes years or even decades of experience and practice. If you’ve found it already, you’re such a lucky girl!
The best thing you can do to activate your magic button is to use a G-spot vibrator. But, what is a G-spot vibrator? It is a penetrating sex toy that stimulates the vagina walls and the area where G-spot is situated.
There are so many G-spot vibrators on the market – curved, beaded, big-headed, egg-shaped, super realistic, etc. The same applies to materials. Most often, vibrators are made of silicone because this material is super soft, sturdy, easily washable, and gentle.
Other materials like PVC, soft plastic, or rubber can also work. It’s up to you what to opt for. But no matter what you choose, it’s useless if you don’t know how to use it.
So How to Use G-spot Vibrator?
This toy is not difficult to use. Usually, it has a button or several buttons that you push to regulate the intensity of vibrations or the speed. Various vibrating patterns are needed for different levels of sexual arousal.
Slow vibrations are for women who struggle with sex drive. This speed mode stimulates the labia, clitoris, and G-spot and makes them swollen and a little red. When a woman’s genitals look this way it means that she is ready to get orgasms.
Fast vibrations should be turned on when you’re close to the peak and about to cum. They help your body let all the love juice out and release the sex energy in the form of a strong and powerful orgasm.
If a woman can’t get wet herself or doesn’t produce enough lube, it is recommended to buy a lubricant. Lubes can be water-based, silicone-based, oil-based, etc. The best lubes for toys are water-based since they are compatible with all sex toys and don’t cause vaginal infections (like some oil-based ones do).
Always apply some lube before using the G-spot vibrator to avoid chafing or skin injuries. Besides, you should be tuned to sex waves. The G-spot doesn’t hide, still, it is hard to find. So don’t make this task more difficult and have sex only when you want to.
The depth of penetration depends on the place of your G-spot. By the way, not all the G-spot vibrators are the same in terms of size. Some are longer, others are wider. The best vibrators for G-spot are the ones with the long ‘body’ and a big ‘head’ because you can easily hold them.
Egg-shaped or beaded vibrators are perfect because they stimulate the vagina walls and hit the G-spot every time. The big head of the vibrator focuses on the G-spot area and massages it.
We all remember that the door to the orgasm kingdom is 2-3 inches above the vagina, right (in most of the cases at least)? That is why don’t put the vibrator too deep. Just lie on a bed and put it inside for 2-3 inches. Turn the vibrator on and don’t forget about the lube. You can use more lube during sex if you need it.
If you’re having sex with a partner, let him/her do the vibrator penetration and use the tongue to intensify the sensations. When a tongue is in, the orgasm is even closer. The partner can play with your nipples and breasts because they are erogenous zones.
If you’ve found your G-spot, picked the right lubricant that doesn’t cause allergies, purchased the perfect G-spot vibrator, and learned how to use it, orgasms must be already on their way!