Most people have a lot of affection for “bigger tools” in the bedroom, but can they handle them? Well, most will answer yes, but most people that have big penises have said otherwise. Do you think your mouth can handle the big deal? Well, if your answer is yes, we think you are probably wrong. After this article, though, we can assure you that you will do it like a pro. We managed to ask around, and we know exactly what those who are endowed with the size like and love during their time of oral pleasure. You need to read this.
How to Suck a Big Cock
There is a saying that goes, “All dicks are the same”. Well, it is a lie, especially when it comes to oral sex. Oral sex is, let us just say, art. It means it should be treated as art, and there is a need to understand how to go around. The most complex skill when it comes to oral sex has to be understanding how to handle “larger machinery”. There are many tricks that you can employ to make the ride smooth and pleasurable for both you and your partner. Here they are!
Lube, Lube, and Lube
For smaller dicks saliva will do the trick, but if you are giving head to someone with a large dick, trust us, your saliva won’t be enough. Most people are a bit skeptical about using lube during oral sex, but when it comes to big dicks, it is not only a good thing – it is necessary. Remember your mouth can and will get dry. You do not want to give head with a dry mouth, and your partner definitely doesn’t want to get it from someone with a dry mouth.
The good thing, though, is that over the years, there are dozens of oral sex lubes that have been made. Most of them are flavored, and you can choose the one you will like. Lube will help make the flow of the oral session better. It will also make you avoid the gag reflex and choking. Some of the best oral sex lubes are water-based, and we recommend you get those.
Use Your Tongue
Big dicks are a bit difficult to handle because they usually cannot fit in your mouth entirely. It means some of the sensitive areas of the penis might not get in contact with your lips or mouth. It can make it a bit less pleasurable for your partner. What do you do? Well, here is where the tongue comes in. Tongue work is essential and can be the deciding factor whether a blowjob was exciting or not.
Licking is the icing to any blowjob. If your partner is big, using your tongue whilst their penis is in your mouth is virtually impossible. It means you have to do all the tongue work on the outside. You do not want your partner to lose attention, so make sure that your tongue work is incisive. Lick the head, lick the shaft, lick the taint, and yes, you need to lick the balls.
Breathe
One thing that most people tend to forget during fits of pleasure is to breathe. Well, if you do not breathe, a big dick can kill you. You need to make sure that you breathe in and out during the session. You have to learn to breathe with the penis in your mouth. It might take a bit of practice to accomplish, especially with larger than normal dicks, but it’s an essential skill.
It’s a bit difficult to breathe with such a huge package in your mouth. It means you have to breathe entirely with your nose. The heat that comes through your mouth as you breathe is an important part of the oral session. Remember the entire motive behind the session is to provide a pleasure package that is just as big as the dick you are sucking. This skill will certainly deliver it. Stopping mid-way through the blowjob to breathe might kill the vibe, try to avoid it. It is also important to avoid choking, be sure to breathe.
Keep Teeth Out of the Way
One of the biggest problems you are going to face when giving head to someone who has a huge dick is keeping your teeth out of the way. Large dicks tend to fill up the entire mouth, and it might be a bit difficult to avoid the dick running into your teeth. Bitemarks do not look good on penises. Trust us, you do not want to bite your partner during oral play. The good thing, though, is that it can be avoided, and we are going to teach how to go around it.
The best way to avoid your teeth getting into the way is to take it slow. If you go around a bit too quickly, chances are you are going to get into contact with the penis using your teeth, and it will be nasty or bloody. You can also wrap your lips around your teeth. It will work wonders, and we recommend you practice it. Another thing you can do to avoid bite marks or scars is to control the penis with your hands. Hands-free action can result in injuries when you are dealing with a big dick.
Take Breaks
Some dicks are just too big to handle in one go. It means you should take breaks to get back to your best. Your jaws are bound to start hurting, especially with larger dicks, and you will not be at your best when it happens. Take a short break and get back to sucking once you are done. Do not dampen the session during your break. You can let your hands take over as you rest your jaws and tongue. You have nothing to prove by going on a marathon blow session. It will do nothing but just blow you out.
Use Your Hands
One thing you have to understand when dealing with larger than normal “parcels” is that your mouth alone does not cut it. You need to make sure that your hands are a big part of the action to make the session amazing and out of this world. Anyone with a dick can cum using their hands alone. Now, imagine what your mouth and your hands combined can achieve. Most people tend to favor the hands-free technique, but trust us, it won’t cut it in most cases where big dongs are involved.
The best part about sucking a huge dick is that there is enough dick to suck and stroke at the same time. There’s a common technique employed by most people when it comes to larger-than-life dicks. It’s called the suck and jack. The technique means you use your hands to jerk off the shaft of the penis whilst the mouth sucks the head. This technique works magic and allows your partner to get the best of both worlds. The good thing again is that it tends to reduce the pressure on your mouth.
Simple Is Always Better
Another trick that can help you “endure” oral sex with someone with a huge dick is choosing a comfortable position. Although pleasurable, oral sex with someone with a huge dick is very far away from comfortable. The gag reflexes, the choking, and the jaw fatigue are some of the things you are going to experience. A complex sex position will do nothing but compound these problems.
Some of the best oral sex positions are simple. You might be tempted to try those daredevil positions on a huge dick, but it will just discount the pleasure for you and your partner. The 69 is tempting, but correctly handling a big dick whilst you are getting some oral pleasure on the other end is virtually impossible. The sit and suck position might actually be the go-to position for people that are blessed with a larger than normal package. There are also other positions that will work. These include the stand and kneel position, where you are kneeling, and your partner is standing. If you are feeling a bit adventurous, though, you can give the doggy style oral a try. It will make your partner explode, literally.
Communicate
Nobody knows what they want to do other than your partner. As much as you can be versed with the art of the blowjob, there might be some details your partner might need to be added to the action, and no one knows these details better than your partner. Make sure that you ask as often as possible what your partner wants. It will make the experience magical. It is also important to ask during the oral session if they are enjoying it. It is standard procedure.
Sucking dick is art. Sucking a big dick is great art. These tips and tricks will definitely make the experience out of this world for both you and your partner. Give them a try and enjoy.
