Having a threesome is a fetish that nearly everyone has. There is an excitement that comes with sharing sexual pleasure with not only one but two people. Most people would testify that having an extra set of balls or an extra vagina during sex can quadruple the pleasure of the entire encounter. It makes the threesome the gold standard of sex fetishes. If you felt like a threesome was what you needed in your sex life, but you were a little shy about it, you would be glad to know you are part of a huge group. In this article, we will be talking about everything about threesomes.
Getting a Threesome
We have already highlighted how exciting a threesome is, and we know you are probably thirsting to have one. Getting a threesome is not the easiest thing that you can do, for most people, at least. There are dozens of barriers that can result in you not getting your fetish satisfied. The reasons may range from some simple ones to some that might be a little outrageous. We will be looking at most of the barriers that you will face in your pursuit of the great sex escapade that is a threesome.
Barriers to Your Threesome
These are the most common obstacles that you are likely going to face if you decide to try a threesome.
Getting Your Partner to Agree
If you have a long-term partner, getting a threesome might be difficult. Most relationships have a lot of boundaries, especially when the issue pertains to sex. Getting to convince your partner to go into bed with another person is a little difficult. If you are in a long-term relationship, bringing the topic up for discussion might sound a little taboo. It is why most people tend not to pursue such fetishes and can only dream of them.
Finding Partners
Although most online dating sites now offer an option exclusively for those looking for threesomes, getting a partner can still be very difficult. One of the main reasons that can make finding partners for threesomes difficult has to be the issue of preference. Getting three people that match in terms of likes is quite complicated. Another thing is that even if you have a partner, they might want to get a third partner they are accustomed to, and that is not easy. It certainly has the biggest obstacle that you will face, and it is very little you can do to circumnavigate it.
Risk of Diseases
One thing that you might be concerned about before diving into a threesome might be the risk of contracting sexually transmitted illnesses. Although there are precautions that can be taken to avoid catching these diseases, in some cases, partners may be a little negligent. When you are switching between two partners, you might end up drowning in the sea of pleasure. And you end up forgetting all about the precautions. It can also be a barrier to your pursuit of a threesome and might end up resulting in your pursuit ending up as only a pursuit.
These barriers can pretty much turn you off, and you might end up giving up. The good news is with technology and, well, a lot of sexual creativity, you can easily simulate a threesome. You do not need a third person to have a “threesome”. If you are wondering how it can be achieved, then you need to read this article.
Simulating a Threesome
There are several ways you can simulate a threesome. We will be looking at the best available ways to help you decide which one works best for you.
Sex Toys
The best way to simulate a threesome is by incorporating sex toys. Dozens of sex toys available can give you the sensation of a threesome or something better. There are several sex toys available that you can use to simulate a threesome and the best ones are dildo, fleshlight, and sex doll.
Dildo
It certainly has to be the first thing we look at, amongst the sex toys that represent a threesome. If you enjoy sex with one penis, imagine how much you would enjoy it with two. The best part about using a dildo to simulate a threesome is that there’s no emotional part. It means your partner does not need to compete with another person to satisfy you. It is a win for both you and your partner. The biggest advantage is you can pick just about any size you like. Let’s get on to how you go about the simulation with a dildo.
Simulating Threesome with Dildo
The first thing you need to do is to pick a dildo for your threesome. There are various sizes, materials, and shapes of dildos available on the market. Double-ended dildos are also great. The secret to choosing the best dildo is getting your partner involved. Remember it is a threesome, and your partner will be part of the action like you. You need to agree on the perfect sex toy to ensure that the experience simulates the exact threesome of your dreams. Depending on your preference, you can pick just about any dildo, but we recommend using a rubber or silicone dildo. It is the closest alternative to the actual penis.
Threesome
The most common activity in terms of threesomes is double penetration. There is nothing that does this better than a dildo. Make sure you choose a position that can make double penetration easier for you and your partner to go through the act. Doggy style is the best position for double penetration as it gives you the freedom to work on your dildo. There are two forms of double penetration. You can either put both the penis and the dildo in the vagina or anus, or you can put one in each hole. The anal cavity is littered with nerves, and penetration of both the anus and vagina will provide a sexual sensation you never thought possible.
You can also combine oral action with your dildo, coupling it with penetration. If your male partner is adventurous, you can also go off and try some dildo penetration on him. It can be quite something for both of you. Check out some of the best anal dildos available.
FleshLight
Who knows that eventually, we could have a vagina on a stick? The fleshlight has taken the sex toy world by storm, and it is probably one of the best substitutes for a person when you are simulating a threesome. You can penetrate your fleshlight while you orally please your partner. It means you can get pleasure, at the same time pleasing your partner. Just like you would in an actual threesome.
Sex Doll
If you want the full threesome experience, then we recommend you get yourself the sex doll. A sex doll is very realistic (especially the female ones). Sex dolls are the closest you can get to an actual threesome. Make sure you choose the sex doll that makes you feel close to the action the most. The best about sex dolls is they can provide both anal and vaginal pleasure. We can guarantee you that a sex doll feels pretty much like a real female, and your partner will agree. With AI, the sex dolls can be programmed to speak and also release “semen”. You and your partner get to make your third “cum”. That must be one hell of an experience, and you will certainly enjoy it.
Digital Threesome
Technology has changed the sex scene, and right now, your third partner does not even need to be present to have a threesome.
Virtual Threesome
All three participants can be in different locations and still enjoy the act. Although virtual threesomes usually have 2 participants and a third partner watching from another location, the first instance is also possible. Watching people satisfying themselves sexually can be equally as satisfying. It is the concept behind these threesomes, and some services allow you to choose what your other partners do in the virtual threesome. The best part about these virtual threesomes is they can be accessed from anywhere. And since they involve mostly coordinated masturbation sessions, there is less risk of catching diseases.
One thing that you can also do is to watch porn with your partner. Porn will sharpen your threesome fantasy and make the idea pretty much admirable. There is, though, the need to realize that porn is exactly what it is. You can’t expect to repeat the experience in real life. Try to find a threesome you and your partner will both enjoy, and we can guarantee that your sex life will never be the same.
Simulating a threesome is quite easy, and there are multiple ways to do it. Choose one that works for you and satisfies your sex fetish!
