Spicing up sex life is always challenging, but no one has ever said that it’s boring. You need to remember that the best gay sex positions are those which are comfortable, not painful, and pleasant for both. Gay couples are blessed with hundreds of sex positions, but which ones are the most orgasmic?
According to the research by the Williams Institute, there are 13 million LGBT people in the US. Moreover, Dr. Evelyn Hooker said that homosexual men are no different from heterosexual men in terms of mental health and intelligence. By means of several tests, she concluded that two-thirds of heterosexual men, as well as two-thirds of gay men, had shown the highest levels of adjustment. What does it tell us? That we are all equal, and all of us need sex.
Sex requires preparation. It’s important to warm things up if you two have never had sex before. First of all, we recommend foreplay. Foreplay makes you horny and sexually driven. Your penises become hard enough to go on to intercourse itself. If your penis needs extra help, try out sex toys like vibrating cock rings, penis vibrators or penis pumps. You’ll get stoked for these pleasure givers once you’ve tried them!
Then, take your favorite lubricant if you are about to penetrate or get penetrated. If you are allergic to average lubes, look for natural ones. They are made of hypo-allergenic materials.
To prepare your anus well, take some lube and ask your partner to wear a condom. Always wear condoms to stay safe! Relax your muscles and try out prostate massagers to stimulate your P-spot. These toys not only prepare men for anal sex but also help to reach strong orgasms.
Okay, enough boring theory for today, let’s get to the most exciting part – the best sex positions for gay men!
Best Gay Sex Positions
Magic fairy – missionary!
Yep, it’s so fun to rhyme missionary. Anyway, this sex position hits the tops of all the best positions for gay sex ratings. No wonder why. It doesn’t hurt because you can control how deep your partner goes. It’s not a cowboy or a reverse cowboy. With the latter, you have no choice but to let him all inside. Besides, it’s super comfy and doesn’t require much effort. A win-win for gay couples who like old-fashioned, yet classy and proven sex positions.
Cowboy and reverse cowboy
Two positions at a time! These cowboys are pretty similar. In reverse cowboy, one of you sits backward on top. This position is way more exciting than a missionary, but it is also more difficult. The one who sits on top must jump on the penis of another to reach orgasmic sensations. So you have to be more or less athletic and physically strong.
If the penis of your partner is too large, it’ll be hard for you to be on top and avoid pain. If so, then don’t try it, or else you could even get injured during sex. Besides, you can train your body with a dildo to get ready for a cowboy and reverse cowboy.
Doggy style
Oh my, we’ve come to the hottest and one of the favorite gay positions, doggy style. The penetration in doggy style is one of the deepest. But since you should stand on all fours with legs spread up, your butt hole becomes wider and opens up for the penis of your partner.
In contrast to the cowboy, both of you can control the level of penetration, which makes doggy style one of the best gay sex positions for large cock. The P-spot is 100% stimulated, the position is not that hard to perform, and the two of you can easily cum together at the same time.
Spooning
Spooning is when you and your partner are lying on your sides, and one of you penetrates the other from the back. This pose is perfect after exhausting cowboy and suspended congress (when you hold and penetrate your partner at the same time).
The sex is slowly and tempting since you can’t move too fast in this position. You can lick his ear, kiss his neck, and play with his hair if you are the one who is penetrating. Spooning is great for late-night or morning sex when you are a bit sleepy but horny enough to play.
Arch
One of you is down and is penetrating the other, who is on top. The penetrator is lying on his back, legs spread, face up. The other one is standing on his hands, legs spread, face up. The one who is on top is sitting on his partner’s penis like in a cowboy. The one who is at the bottom masturbates the penis of his partner.
This position is a combo for the one who is on top because both his anus and penis are stimulated. The one who is down should not only move his hips up and down but also take care of his partner’s penis. Arch is for gay couples who are fed up with good old missionary and doggy style and are ready to put some effort to step on the new level of gay sex.
69
Oral sex is a big bonus. Not always you can have powerful orgasms through penile sex and masturbation. The idea is clear – one of you is lying on the back, whereas the other is standing in the doggy style. The one in the doggy style should be able to lick the penis of his partner, while the one who is down can suck either the ass or the penis of the other. 69 can also be performed when you two are lying on your sides face to face but upside down. There are many variations of 69, which makes this position classic yet exotic.
Of course, this is not the full list of gay sex positions. You can google them or watch gay porn if you want to find out more. However, these 6 top positions are the base and leave room for imagination and creativity.
