Alright, I’m just going to jump right in and start because I’m not exactly sure how else to start. Mom, you might want to stop reading or read on but this post is about anal.
Yup, anal sex and anal play.
You would not be wrong in calling me vanilla when it comes to sex but I am very curious and one of the things that I am most curious about is anal sex and anal sex toys. I also realize that a lot of people have a strict “exit only” policy about their backsides but if you are willing to set that aside and be open to a new experience some damn good orgasms can happen.
I’m just going to come out and say it, I enjoy anal sex, either with cock or toys, it’s a good thing in my book. Anatomically speaking, there are thousands of nerve endings around the rectum and when they are stimulated correctly some of the most powerful, satisfying orgasm can occur.
Anal Play and Lube
When trying anything new, it is best to do it with a partner who you trust and you should talk about things first. Anal play needs lots of lube and for me it can’t happen fast. I can’t just take a big fat toy all the way in 5 seconds flat. I need to be really turned on, lubed up and opened. Insertion must happen slowly, allowing the body to become accustomed to this new sensation. If it’s not done with care and too fast, that’s when it hurts and my back door which was open will close up tighter than a virgin in a whore house.
Personally, I like the full feeling of something in my ass and in my vagina. And this is where toys come into play. Most vibrators or dildos can be used for vaginal and anal play. This is what usually happens in my bedroom. We use my current toys for both. (If you do this just make sure that you follow the rules. If it’s been in your ass, it must be thoroughly cleaned before using it in your vagina. Do not go back and forth without cleaning unless you enjoy infections).
But like I said, I am curious. I wanted to try toys that are specifically designed for anal stimulation like anal beads and plugs. How can these make the whole experience better? And do they really?
Enter Flexi Felix
Felix is flexible anal beads which are all connected in a row. He has a fun little face handle and is made of 100% silicone. He’s very flexible and creates great stimulation which leads to amazing orgasms.
I think Felix is a great first-time anal toy. The size is just right for the beginner which I happen to be. Here’s how he worked for me.
After a long tongue on clit session, I got into the doggy style position with a vibrator handy. I was primed and ready. My husband lubed up Felix with a water-based lube and also made sure my ass was nice and wet.
The first bead, the smallest of the row, was slipped in. Honestly, I didn’t notice it much. Then he slid in the second, third, fourth and fifth. The beads gradually get bigger in size, the last one being the biggest and I did notice that one but not in a bad way. Once the toy was in place, he left it there and let me stimulate my clit more getting myself closer and closer to orgasm. He took his ‘clean’ hand and fingered my vagina to help. At the precise right moment, he began to slowly pull Felix from my ass, one glorious, stimulating bead at a time.
As each bead passed through, I was sent into an intense, deep, guttural orgasm that I’m pretty sure started at my toes and overtook my whole body. Once Felix was out, his cock was in and he rode the shirt tales of that orgasm sending me into another orgasm and then finding his own.
Holy Macaroni was that good!
The whole experience was intense and just downright awesome!
I really suggest thinking about adding anal play to your relationship and if you are at all curious about anal toys, I say that Flexi Felix is the way to start. Broaden those horizons and open your ass … you won’t be sorry.
Power Source: You’re all the power this exciting toy needs!
Performance: Graduating anal beads.
Controls: Manual operation.
Special Features: 100% Waterproof. Elliptical shaped beads in varying sizes.
Vibrations Levels: N/A.
Ins: Waterproof, flexible, good size for beginners with anal.
Material: 100% body-safe silicone.
Safety Features: Body safe
Colors: Black, Pink and Candy Blue
Manufacturer: Fun Factory
Total Length: 10” insertable length
Diameter: 1” at widest point
Cost: $34.99 (Prices are subject to change)
Warranty: 2-year warranty
**Based on a scale of 1-10, with 1 being not so great and 5 being awesome.
Noise Level: 10 – The only noise you’ll hear will be coming from you!
Performance Satisfaction: 10
Value for the Price: 10
Intensity Level: 10
Overall Rating: 10