A strap on may not be the first item you add to your bedroom repertoire; however, it can be a real addition. But, where should you start and how can you find the best strap-on for you?
In this article, we will dive deeper into strap-ons and help you find the best one for your situation.
How to Choose the Right Strap-on?
You have a lot of choice when it comes to strap-ons, but there are a few things you should consider when buying one. We will cover some of these things now before we go into the list of the best strap-ons.
Fit and model
Some strap-ons use straps, while others may be strapless. Before you purchase a strap-on, you should think about the model you are looking to get.
The model can have a big impact on comfort, and also the ease of getting it on.
Features
Some come with just the strap-on mechanism, while others come with a pocket for a vibrator or even have one built in! Also, if you don’t have a dildo, or want one included, then this is something you can look for too when trying to make a decision.
The Dildo
The main part of the strap-on experience is the dildo that’s attached to it. Are you looking for a very realistic dildo or a reliable anal dildo? There’s a lot to choose from so make sure you think about this so you can find the right one for you.
Having trouble choosing the right dildo? Check out our article on the picking the best dildo!
Size
Some are “one size fits all” while others allow for adjustments in the strap length. Most of the models on our list include the size in the listing, so this shouldn’t be too hard to check!
Not only the size of the straps themselves but also the size of the dildo is important to take into account. Picking one too large may cause an unpleasant experience while picking one too small may result in a lack of stimulation. Check out this dildo size guide if you would like to find the ideal size for you.
14 Best Strap-ons:
Now, to the list you’ve all been waiting for. Here’s a list of our top picks for the best strap-ons for you to consider:
Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit
The Unisex Strap-on for Advanced Users
This strap on by Lovehoney will ensure you have great fun in the bedroom for quite some time to come.
This strap-on comes equipped with a dildo so you don’t have to purchase one separately and the dildo is curved to ensure better stimulation of the G-spot.
Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On fits the majority of people, (from 28 inches to 65 inches; US dress size 8-28) so the likelihood of this being a great fit for you is very high. It also includes 3 interchangeable O-rings to accommodate for most sex toy sizes.
If all of this wasn’t enough, this strap-on includes an inside pocket where you can insert a bullet vibrator to increase your own stimulation as well!
All of this and it’s still one of the cheaper models on this list! You’ll get a truly fantastic bang for your buck!
Pros: Includes a 7-inch dildo so you can get started right away, Pocket to include bullet vibrator for added stimulation, Adjustable size will fit the majority of people, Interchangeable O-rings to ensure the strap-on is compatible with a variety of toys
Spareparts Hardwear Unisex Joque Strap-On Harness
The Strap-on With 2 Vibrator Pockets
The Spareparts Hardware Unisex Joque Strop-on Harness is great for both men and women!
With an adjustable waist length between 20 and 50 inches (dress sizes 4-28), it will fit almost anyone. This strap-on also includes adjustable leg straps to improve the fit and create an even more comfortable experience.
This model has not 1, but 2 pockets for bullet vibrators. This ensures you get double the stimulation when you strap on and get to work. Its stretchy adjustable O-ring ensures the strap-on is compatible with almost all toys.
It’s made from a breathable and pleasant material and is made with durability in mind. This strap-on is on the more expensive side but you truly do get quality in return!
Pros: Great quality strap-on that’s made to last, 2 pockets for added bullet vibrators, Adjustable to fit almost all sizes, Compatible with almost all sex toys
Sportsheets New Comers Harness and Dildo Strap-On Kit
Beginners Strap-on Set that’s Easy to Use
This strap-on kit is the perfect choice for first-timers or people new to the experience.
This strap-on is extremely versatile and allows pretty much anyone to wear it up to a hip size of 60-inches. It also offers compatibility with other dildos aside from just its own which makes it even more dynamic in use.
The harness comes complete with a dildo that has a length of five inches. This makes it possible to use this strap-on kit right out of the box which makes it even more ideal for first-timers or less experienced users.
If you’re after the ease of use, then this is the perfect choicer as well. It’s machine washable which means it can go in with your normal laundry load, and it’s easy to get on.
The Sportsheets New Comers Harness is great for pegging and is priced in the low-mid price range compared to the rest of this list. Overall, a great complete strap-on kit!
Pros: Versatile, fits everyone up to a large size, 5-inch dildo included, great for pegging, great for beginners
Cons: Doesn’t offer as much stimulation as one might like straight out of the box
Lovehoney Perfect Partner Unisex Hollow 10 Function Vibrating Strap-On
The Strap-on With a Built-in Vibrator
If you are looking for a vibrating adventure, then this may be the best strap-on for you!
The Lovehoney Perfect Partner Unisex Hollow 10 Function Vibrating Strap-On truly is the perfect partner! It boasts an added vibration option to an already fantastic sex toy.
This model offers 3 different vibrating speeds and a whopping 7 different vibration settings! You will never get bored again with all these options! The controller is wired so either of you can control the vibration settings.
The elastic waistband offers a space for the controller to be stashed away and the textured 8-inch dildo will satisfy you any day.
This strap-on is also one of the cheaper models on this list and is superb value for money, looking at the features it offers.
Pros: 8-inch textured dildo to provide maximum stimulation, Vibrating dildo with 3 speeds and 7 vibration settings so you never get bored in the bedroom again
Cons: Not compatible with a lot of other dildo models
Desire Luxury Rechargeable Strapless Strap-On Dildo
Luxury Strapless Strap-on Dildo
The Desire Luxury Rechargeable Strapless Strap-On Dildo is the perfect strapless solution for anyone into pegging (and not only).
This strap-on dildo comes without straps and is used by inserting it straight into your vagina. Even though this does require good pelvic floor muscles, it isn’t all too hard once you get the hang of it and it provides high levels of stimulation to both you and your partner.
It also boasts a clitoral stimulator that helps to provide even more stimulation to the wearer. The wearer gets to enjoy a four and a half inch insertable length, while the receiver has the luxury of a full five inches of insertable pleasure.
This toy also vibrates and offers a vast range of vibration features. It comes with a massive eight vibration patterns and twelve vibration speeds for you to choose from. This allows both you and your partner to get the exact stimulation you’re after.
The battery life is decent, and the vibrations can last for as long as a full hour without need for recharging. The toy is also completely waterproof, allowing you to enjoy it wherever and whenever you see fit.
The Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On Dildo has a travel lock and comes in a luxury storage pouch. It’s priced at the higher end of this list, but given the features is more than worth it.
Pros: Strapless, great for pegging, provides stimulation to both partners, 8 vibration patterns, 12 vibration speeds, 60-minutes of battery life, waterproof, travel lock
Cons: Takes some getting used to before really being able to enjoy the toy
King Cock Strap-On Harness Kit with Ultra Realistic Dildo
The Realistic King of Strap-ons
This strap-on dildo is just as realistic as it is pleasurable. The King Cock Strap-On Harness Kit with Ultra Realistic Dildo truly is a force to be reckoned with.
This strap-on boasts a dildo length of humongous 9 inches and is not for amateurs. The strap-on itself is adjustable between 25 and 52 inches so it fits a large number of users and the suggested dress size is 6 to 30.
This model comes with a whole host of features and extras and can also fit other dildos, so you aren’t just stuck with the large model either. The dildo also comes with a suction cup for hands-free use.
This model is priced in the mid-high price range but as it includes a separate dildo, is still priced very reasonably if you ask us!
Pros: Suction cup for hands-free use, Lots of extra features included within the price, Large, realistic and highly stimulating dildo included so you don’t have to buy one separately
Cons: This model doesn’t have the possibility to add vibrators easily while using the strap-on
Lovehoney Double Wow Strapless Strap-On Dildo
The Double Pleasing Strapless Strap-on
Another one of the strapless strap-on dildos on this list, this model is even more stimulating than the last strapless one!
The Lovehoney Double Wow Strapless Strap-On Dildo includes an ultra-realistic shaft and a textured base to ensure stimulation on both ends.
This dildo is a great addition to your bedroom toys collection if you like to share the pleasure together with your partner.
This model is priced at the cheaper end of the scale and is definitely a contender for one of the best strapless strap-on dildos!
Pros: Strapless strap-on so no fussing and fiddling with the straps, Extremely realistic feel for a better experience, Stimulating on both ends so a great experience to share with your partner
Cons: No vibration and no easy way to incorporate this into the experience
Happy Rabbit Rechargeable Vibrating Strap-On Harness Set
Luxury Strap-On Harness Set With Rabbit Vibe
Next is the Happy Rabbit Rechargeable Vibrating Harness Set which is a luxury strap on that offers its users a heap of pleasure.
If you’re looking for something that’s going to get you or your partner off quickly and effectively then this toy if for you. It comes paired with a vibrating dildo that lets the receiver achieve powerful orgasms.
This strap-on set comes with fifteen different vibration modes for you to choose from which is not only great during shared play but also very effective during solo play. The vibrator is a rabbit vibe that offers both internal and external stimulation, and the harness comes with different O-rings to make it possible to switch between other vibrators and dildos too.
The Happy Rabbit Harness Kit is fully adjustable to ensure it fits most people. It’s priced on the higher end of this list, but given the features it comes with, it’s worth every penny.
Pros: Luxury model, vibrating dildo included, 15 modes, interchangeable
Cons: The rabbit ears can make thrusting a little difficult
The Multifunctional and High-quality Strap-on for Couples
This multifunctional beast is one of the best strap-ons around and certainly not one to forget on this list!
The Fun Factory Sharevibe Vibrating Silicone Couples Dildo can be used as a strap-on or as a normal dildo and is a vibrating model at that. It comes with a warranty, so you don’t have to worry about it breaking and it’s fully rechargeable too.
This strap-on boasts 6 vibration speed variations which is enough to keep you, or your partner guessing and interested. The bullet vibrator can also be removed and used as a massager or extra bullet vibe too. This makes it an extremely versatile toy to own.
The Fun Factory Sharevibe Vibrating Silicone Couples Dildo is also waterproof which makes it a great companion in the bath tub or shower. It’s also a great experience to share with your partner!
This is one of the more expensive models on this list but truly is one of the best as well. With all these features high-quality materials, this isn’t a model you should forget when making your purchasing choice.
Pros: Removable bullet vibrator included; Multiple ways of using the toy; 2-year warranty included; 6 vibration speeds so you never get bored; Waterproof toy
Cons: May be a little too pricey
Fetish Fantasy Double Delight Strap-On Double Dildo Set
The Double-ended Strap-on for Shared Pleasure
If that last one looked like a great option to ensure shared pleasure, then make sure you take a look at this one!
This double ended strap-on guarantees pleasure for both you and your partner as it offers 2-sided pleasure! The Fetish Fantasy Double Delight Strap-On Dildo Set boasts a 6-inch insertable length and a 4.75-inch girth, for great pleasure to both parties!
The curved and textured shape of these dildos is great for stimulating the most pleasurable places and the free blindfold will make the sex even more exciting!
This dildo is priced in the mid-range of this list and is one of the best double-sided dildos around.
Pros: Double sided for maximum pleasure for both you and your partner, 6-inch length and 4.75-inch girth on both sides for added pleasure, Textured and curved shape to be even more stimulating
Cons: Doesn’t offer vibration-features like some of the other dildos on this list
Packer Gear Strap-On Harness Boxer Shorts with Vibe Pocket
The Strap-on Based on Comfort of Use
This comfortable and easy to use strap-on is a great model for people who want a well-functioning and comfortable strap-on without having to deal with the headaches of getting it on.
The Packer Gear Strap-On Harness Boxer Shorts with Vibe Pocket is fantastic and offer quite some features for a simple model. Not only is it easy to wear and comfortable, but it also boasts a vibrator pocket for easy use along with a vibrator.
Not only will the vibrator improve the experience, but the double panel inside enables this strap-on to be used with double-sided models too!
This model is one of the cheaper models and is great if you are looking for a quick-buy strap-on.
Pros: Compatible with not only most normal dildos but also double-sided models, Extremely comfortable and easy to put on, Includes a vibrator pocket for extra stimulation
Cons: Doesn’t come with dildo included so you have to buy one separate
BASICS Strap-On Harness Kit with 2 Dildos
The 2-dildo Basic Strap-on Set
This beginner strap-on set is ideal if it’s your first time trying out a strap-on. This model comes with everything you will need for your first strap-on experience.
The BASICS Strap-On Harness Kit includes 2 dildos, both having a raised and bumpy texture for added stimulation. The two dildos measure 6-inches and 8-inches, so there is a size for everyone.
With adjustable O-ring sizes and an adjustable harness, this strap-on starter set is suitable for almost anyone and compatible with almost any dildo.
This strap-on set is priced in the mid-range and is great for any beginner looking to experience what it’s like to have a true strap-on adventure.
Pros: Great for starters, includes everything you will need; Adjustable O-ring and strap sizes to fit almost everyone; Includes 2 dildos, both 6 and 8-inches long, which are textured and highly stimulating
Cons: Doesn’t come with the option to add a vibrator like some of the other models do
Aslan Jaguar G Leather Strap-on Harness
The Leather Harness Made With Looks and Durability in Mind
If you’re looking for a strap-on harness that looks the part and feels the part, this leather beauty is the perfect option for you.
The Aslan Jaguar G Leather Strap-on Harness is made of real leather and comes with all the benefit’s that real leather provides. High durability, great quality… Just a great product to have if you are looking for a quality strap-on experience.
This harness may just be the sexiest looking harness there is, especially when you count to quality of materials too! It can also double up as a butt plug holder making it more versatile than most of the model as well.
It’s priced at the higher end of the spectrum when it comes to harnesses but due to the quality materials and great looking design there is good reason for this. A great addition to your toy collection!
Pros: A great looking strap-on harness; Made of real leather; Extremely durable and high-quality; Can double up as a butt plug holder
Cons: The price may be a little too high for your liking
SPAREPARTS Tomboi Harness
Comfortable Strap-on Harness with Great Usability
Next on this list of the best strap-ons is the SPAREPARTS Tomboi Harness and they’ve really focused on functionality as well as comfort when designing this model.
This strap-on harness is in the form of boxer shorts which ensures a higher level of comfort compared to the traditional harness. It’s made in the USA and comes with an additional pouch on the inside.
This pouch can be used to harbor an extra vibrator or another supplementary toy. By adding a vibrator to the pouch, you instantly increase the level of stimulation for both the giver as well as the receiver.
This strap on harness comes with a manufacturer’s warranty of one full year and is also vegan-friendly which ensures it’s good for the planet. It can be washed either by hand or thrown directly in the washing machine for easier use.
The SPAREPARTS Tomboi Harness is extremely comfortable and made from a breathable fabric. It also comes with strong O-rings and is 100% water-friendly. It’s on the slightly more expensive end of this list but given all the extra features it’s a fantastic addition to any toy collection.
Pros: Comfortable, high-quality, made in the USA, space for extra vibrator insertion, one-year warranty, vegan-friendly, breathable fabric
Cons: Expensive
FAQ’s
What are some tips when using a strap-on?
Get used to the toy
This is especially true for strapless models, but also for models with straps. Get used to the feel of the toy and the motion in which you will be using it before embarking on your experience. This will make it a lot more pleasurable.
Don’t forget to use lube
Lubrication will make the whole experience a lot easier and a lot more fun. Don’t forget to use lube when trying out your new strap-on.
If it’s your first time using a strap-on, check out this article on your first strap-on.
Can I use all dildos on all strap-ons?
No, this depends on the model. As you can see in our list, some strap-ons are adjustable to fit most models, while others just focus on their own model of a dildo. Make sure to check this before you buy!
Can I use a strap-on, even if I’m a man?
Of course you can. Even though they were created with lesbian sex in mind, there’s nothing stopping you from trying it out! If it fits, give it a shot!
As you can see, strap-ons are a much more complex topic than you would think. However, we hope you now have enough information to make an educated decision about which strap-on you should go for and how to find the best strap-on for you!
Myself and my partner use a strap-on. When she uses the pants with strap-on attached she enjoys….but we would pref ones to fit in pants dble ended…I enjoy her pegging me and the pants with ring are comfortable for her but the don’t do s dble end one that will fit securely in pants
Well, you can try a strapless one. In this case, your partner will have a dildo inside as well.
Is it possible to use the strapless Fun Factory sharevibe couples dildo with a harness? If so, which harness is recommended? Thank you.
You mean without inserting it inside yourself? In theory, you may try to put it through an O ring like https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=30701 or https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=35261. But we don’t know how securely it will fit.
Amanda, if it’s not too late, you can use a packer support and pair it with a Lovehoney.
Lovehoney: https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=37750
Packer: https://www.goodvibes.com/s/sex-toys/p/GV27431/new-york-toy-collective-/stp-packer-strap
Hello! I was wondering the same thing as Amanda. Can I wear (inside of me) the Fun Factory share vive together with a harness for extra support of the dildo which maybe makes easier trying a wider range of sex positions 🙂
M
Actually, you may try experimenting with this one https://www.lovehoney.com/product.cfm?p=32780 (or similar type). You can make some additional holes yourself and it’s not that expensive. Give it a try and let us know=)