Whether you’re 18 or 80, there’s a toy that’s going to be able to spice up your sex life. In this post, we’re going to cover the best lesbian sex toys, as well as what to look out for when buying one. Without beating around the bush, we’re going to dive straight in.
How to Choose The Best Lesbian Sex Toys
Stimulation
The first and most important thing to keep in mind is the stimulation you’re after. If you’re someone that likes it deep and vibrating violently, then go for it! If you’re more about the slow life, then knock yourself out too. There’s no right or wrong, just make sure to tailor your choice to your preference!
Variation
Sometimes you just want to spice things up with something different. Vibration can come in all shapes and sizes, from vibration settings to toys that are temperature-responsive. A bit of variation goes a long way, so it’s definitely something to keep in mind.
Area
Anal, external, G-spot, take your pick! There are toys for almost every orifice so make sure to look for one that’s going to get you or your partner off. If they’re no into anal, then look for a dildo or something more subtle like a finger vibe.
Intimacy
Even though thrusting a 16-inch dildo in and out violently might be your cup of tea, a bit of intimacy can help bring you closer as a couple. On the other hand, you might just really love large dildos, and that’s fine too! Just something to consider…
Extra features
Aside from all these things, there are many extra features that sex toys can have nowadays. From remote controls to VR implementations; if you can dream it, it probably exists!
Best Lesbian Sex Toys:
njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo
Steel Dildo With Great Weighted Feel
First on the list is this curved steel delight. The njoy Pure Wand Dildo is the perfect dildo for lesbian fun!
This dildo comes with many advantages compared to the more-generic models. Firstly, the material it’s made from is hypoallergenic and non-porous. It’s extremely resilient to damage too, even though it makes a heck of a noise when dropped.
It’s also temperature responsive which means you can heat it up or cool it down prior to use. This makes it great for anal fun as well as applying some cold sensations to any desired area.
Even though it doesn’t vibrate or pulsate, it is double-sided to ensure you can switch things up from time to time. You can start off slow with the thinner end and then turn it around to feel the maximum pleasure that this toy has to offer.
The njoy Pure Wand Dildo is curved in order to stimulate your G-spot in the best way possible and is weighted to allow you to apply a good amount of pressure. It’s on the slightly more expensive end of this list but is more than worth it if you can spare it.
Pros: Hypoallergenic, non-porous, temperature responsive, stimulates the G-spot, double-sided, weighted
Cons: Doesn’t offer any vibration features on the toy itself
Doc Johnson Crystal Jellies Realistic Double-Ended Dildo
Long Double-Ended Dildo
Second on the list is the Doc Johnson Crystal Jellies Dildo, an extra-long dildo with two sides for you to enjoy.
This flexible purple shaft comes with a whole 18 inches of length for you and your partner to enjoy. It even allows you both to enjoy it together in intimate positions should you so choose.
That being said, if you want to enjoy the toy all by yourself, the flexible nature of the toy allows you to enjoy both anal and vaginal penetration at the same time. This is great for solo play but also fantastic when shared with a partner.
The Doc Johnson Crystal Jellies Dildo comes with a bulging head and textured shaft for a realistic and highly stimulating experience. It’s one of the less expensive toys on this list making it a great lesbian sex toy if you’re on a tight budget.
Pros: 18 inches of total length, can be used by two people at once, great for double penetration, textured shaft, great value
Cons: As with the previous model, doesn’t offer a whole lot of variation
Fetish Fantasy Double Delight Strap-On Double Dildo Set
Insertable Strap On That Hits the G-Spot
This unique-looking insertable strap on is the Fetish Fantasy Double Delight, a strap on dildo the delivers quite the stimulation.
This strap on consists of two dildos attached at the center with straps. It’s inserted into both you and your partner, so you can experience what it’s like to be both the receiver as well as the one dealing out the pleasure.
Both sides have an insertable length of six inches and this allows for both you and your partner to feel the pleasure regardless of the position you take. Both shafts are also textured for perfect stimulation of the G-spot.
The Fetish Fantasy Double Delight comes with a free blindfold and is a great strap on set for high levels of pleasure. It’s priced at the lower end of this list.
Pros: Double-sided strap on, pleasures both you and your partner, 6-inch insertable length, stimulates the G-spot, free blindfold included, great value
Cons: The straps aren’t the most comfortable to wear
The Vibrating Strapless Strap-on
Next is the Fun Factory ShareVibe Rechargeable Strapless Strap-On and it may just be one of the most stimulating options around.
This strap-on actually comes with no straps which allows for maximum freedom during use. Made from medical-grade silicone, this pleasure toy has a range of different features that make it a delight to use.
Firstly, it comes with a removable bullet vibrator which has five powerful vibration settings for you to choose from. This keeps things interesting during both solo and shared use.
It’s also obviously made to share with a partner and has been designed to hit the G-spot in the most intense way possible. Along with this, it has an extremely long battery life, boasting two to four hours of continuous use on just one charge.
The Fun Factory ShareVibe Rechargeable Strapless Strap-On comes with a magnetic charging cable and is 100% waterproof which allows use in a wide variety of exciting places. It’s averagely priced compared to the rest of this list.
Pros: Strapless, medical-grade silicone, removable bullet vibe, 5 vibration settings, G-spot stimulation, long battery life, waterproof
Cons: It doesn’t come with a storage bag
We-Vibe Tango
Luxury High-Powered Vibrator
Next is the We-Vibe Tango; a small vibrator packed with features.
This vibrator is more luxurious than normal, but this is one of the reasons it’s so great. It comes with a lot of stimulation and a strong motor that delivers powerful vibrations right where you need them.
This lesbian sex toy boasts eight vibration modes for you to choose from. This helps to keep things interesting and also allows you to build up stimulation over time, promoting a better experience and more powerful orgasms.
This small clitoral vibrator is waterproof which not only makes it much easier to clean but also allows you to enjoy it in a variety of different places. Any shower sessions or exciting times in the hot tub are ideal for this vibe.
The We-Vibe Tango’s small size makes it great for traveling with and also easy to store. It’s also USB rechargeable making it easy to use. It’s priced in the low-mid price range compared to the others.
Pros: Powerful motor, 8 vibration variations, great for traveling and storing, waterproof, USB-rechargeable
Cons: The battery only lasts enough for one session before you need to recharge it
Tracey Cox Supersex Bullet Vibrator
Bullet Vibe That’s Great for Sharing
The Tracey Cox Supersex Bullet Vibrator was made by sex expert Tracey Cox and is a small vibe with big sensations
This bullet vibe is small and easy to take with you anywhere you go. It’s also very easy to store which makes it the perfect stealth toy. Although small, the vibrations that this bullet vibe gives off are very powerful.
It has also been made to be as discreet as possible and it makes very little noise on even the highest settings. This makes it a perfect toy for solo use, or together with a partner when you both don’t want to get caught!
The Tracy Cox Supersex Vibe is completely waterproof allowing you to take it with you in the shower or tub. As one of the best lesbian toys for foreplay, it’s priced at the lower end of this list making it fantastic value.
Pros: Small size, powerful vibrations, very discreet, waterproof, great value
Cons: The toy isn’t rechargeable
Lelo Sona 2
Pulsating Vibrator That’s Completely Waterproof
The Lelo Sona 2 is another strong entry to this list and it stimulates 75% more of your clit than normal vibes do.
This vibrator, as is the case with all Lelo products, is quite sensational. This luxury sex toy uses pulsations to create the stimulation as opposed to vibration which creates a far superior sensation.
This lesbian toy is 100% waterproof and suitable for use in the shower, bath, as well as in the pool or hot tub. It’s also USB rechargeable which makes it much more user-friendly.
It comes with eight different pleasure settings for you to choose from which go from a steady vibration to an all-out rumble. You can build up the stimulation slowly or jump right in with toe-curling sensations at the click of a button.
The Lelo Sona 2 is whisper quiets and is also a global bestseller. It’s priced averagely compared to the rest of this list making it a great toy to try out.
Pros: Unique sensations, waterproof, pulsations instead of vibrations, USB rechargeable, 8 pleasure settings, whisper-quiet
Cons: The pulsating sensation isn’t for everyone
njoy Fun Wand Stainless Steel Dildo
Stainless Steel Dildo With Two Stimulating Sides
The njoy Fun Wand Stainless Steel Dildo is next, and it comes with a few hidden surprises.
This stainless-steel dildo is extremely stimulating and also comes with some extra variation in the form of two sides. One side is extremely textured while the other is smoother. This makes the toy perfect for both anal as well as vaginal play and ensures you can enjoy it together with your partner too.
The curved shape that this toy boasts comes with multiple benefits, the most important of which is that it’s a fantastic toy for hitting the G-spot with. It also makes reaching around a lot easier which makes the whole experience a lot more relaxing.
As well as these things, the material it’s made from makes it hypoallergenic, non-porous and temperature-responsive too. It also feels heavier than most other dildos which gives a great weighted feel.
The njoy Fun Wand Stainless Steel Dildo comes with a luxury box and is priced in the high-mid price range.
Pros: Double-sided, stimulates the G-spot, weighted, temperature responsive, hypoallergenic, great for anal
Cons: Doesn’t offer as much variation as some of the other options on the market
Jopen Key Pyxis Rechargeable Finger
Rechargeable Finger Vibe That’s Great for Intimacy
Next is the Key Pyxis Rechargeable Finger a stylish finger vibe with a sleek easy-to-use design.
If you’re looking for a great toy to spice up your foreplay, then this is a great option for you. It fits snugly on your finger, allowing for intimate sexual experiences while still adding to the stimulation provided.
The small size makes it the perfect stealthy toy, as hiding it around the house or taking it with you is made super easy. With up to 2 hours of run time when fully charged, this toy outperforms many of the larger ones when it comes to battery life, regardless of its size.
The Key Pyxis is USB rechargeable and comes with five vibration variations for you to choose from. This allows you or your partner to switch things up from time to time. It’s priced at the lower end of this list too making it super accessible.
Pros: Great for discreet use, USB rechargeable, up to 2 hours of battery life, 5 vibration variations
Cons: Can be a little fiddly to get the hang of
Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit
Strap-On With Curved Dildo Included
The Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit is a fantastic lesbian sex toy if you’re into strap on action.
This strap on harness fits all dress sizes from 8 to 28 and comes equipped with a 7-inch dildo for maximum penetrating power. It’s the perfect size for giving your partner the experience they want without overwhelming them.
That being said, if you’re not happy with the size, it comes with three interchangeable O-rings which allow you to fit larger or smaller dildos onto the harness too. The curved shape of the dildo that comes with it is a fantastic shape for hitting the G-spot and really skyrocketing the stimulation.
The Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit comes with a pocket for the bullet vibe that allows for extra stimulation to the wearer too. It’s one of the least expensive toys on this list too which makes it a great one to try out for a change!
Pros: Fits most sizes, includes 7-inch dildo, interchangeable O-rings, great for shared fun, pocket for a bullet vibe
Cons: The dildo that’s included isn’t the best
Magic Wand Rechargeable
Powerful Wand Vibrator With Vibrations Up To 6300 RPM
Next is the Magic Want Rechargeable Vibe; a luxurious vibrator that packs quite a punch.
This wand vibe has a huge amount of power behind it to deliver toe-curling sensations all over you or your partner’s vagina. It’s also an FDA registered device which means you can be sure that it’s safe to use.
This toy comes with four vibration speeds as well as four patterns to choose from. This not only allows you to build up the stimulation slowly but also makes it possible to switch things up from time to time.
With up to 6300 RPM and an easy-to-use user interface, this toy simply couldn’t be left out. It’s also easily recharged by inserting it into the plug socket and comes with a one-year warranty to ensure peace of mind.
The Magic Wand Rechargeable is a great toy for both solo play as well as use with your partner. It’s on the slightly more expensive side, but which other toy can offer you 6300 RPM?!
Pros: Strong vibrations, 4 vibration speeds, 4 vibration patterns, easily rechargeable
Cons: The toy isn’t waterproof
Doc Johnson Pussy Pump
Pussy Pump That Heightens Sensitivity
The Doc Johnson Pussy Pump is next and it will help to increase sensitivity and improve stimulation.
This pussy pump is a fantastic addition to any woman’s repertoire. It comes with a quick-release valve to ensure it’s safe and a large head that increases the area that suction can be applied to.
The simple design makes it easy to use and the bulb allows for use without the need for a hose. The extra suction heightens sensitivity and makes your sessions with your partner a lot more pleasurable.
The Doc Johnson Pussy Pump is easy to clean and is one of the less expensive toys on this list.
Pros: Heightens sensitivity, quick release valve, large head that increases suction, easy to clean
Cons: The suction isn’t for everyone
Happy Rabbit G-Spot Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator
Rabbit Vibe Packed With Variation
This rabbit vibe comes with quite the features to keep you and your partner guessing. Not only does it allow for internal stimulation but it also helps with clitoral stimulation too.
It’s USB rechargeable and the long curved shaft stimulates the G-spot at the best angle possible. It’s also whisper-quiet on certain settings making it perfect for stealthy situations.
If it’s variation you’re after, this toy doesn’t disappoint either. It comes with a total of 15 different vibration variations, of which three speed variations, nine patter variations and another three speed variations in the rabbit ears.
The Happy Rabbit G-Spot Rechargeable Rabbit Vibe lasts for up to two full hours on one charge and is priced in the low-mid price range.
Pros: Internal and external stimulation, USB rechargeable, stimulates G-spot, 15 vibration variations, 2-hour battery life
Cons: The controls are quite fiddly when you first start using the toy
Zalo Desire Preheating Silicone Thruster Dildo
Preheating Dildo That Thrusts Instead of Vibrates
The Zalo Desire Preheating Silicone Thruster Dildo is the next entry, and it’s one that offers a unique sensation.
Instead of vibrating like most vibrating dildos we’ve seen, this model actually thrusts as if you are experiencing real sex. It comes with six different thrusting modes for you to choose from too so you can switch things up whenever you feel like it.
As well as this unique feature, this thrusting dildo also heats up to body temperature in just two minutes. This makes for a much more pleasant experience for both you and your partner.
The Zalo desire Preheating Silicone Thruster Dildo is USB rechargeable, splash-proof and priced at the slightly higher end of this list. The unique features make it worth the extra cost though if you can spare it.
Pros: Thrusts instead of vibrates, 6 thrusting modes, heats to body temperature, USB rechargeable, splash-proof.
Cons: The price makes it less accessible to many people
b-Vibe Cinco Remote Control Vibrating Anal Beads
Remotely Controlled Anal Dildo Packed With Variation
The b-Vibe Cinco Remote Control Vibrating Anal Beads is another sex toy that often features in our lists of the best toys.
These anal beads come with high levels of stimulation and offer an experience that’s in between that of a dildo and anal beads. It offers an extremely textured shaft that is perfect for stimulating your own or your partner’s anus with.
Variation is also a point that this toy scores highly on. It comes with six vibration levels and a whopping 15 different patterns for you to choose from. This not only makes it possible to build up the stimulation to make it more pleasurable, but it also gives you variation galore.
This toy is hypoallergenic, USB rechargeable and comes with a wireless remote control. This makes it perfect for giving control to your partner and allowing them to play with the remote for a little while.
The b-Vibe Cinco Remote Control Vibrating Anal Beads is shower friendly and boasts three powerful motors inside to deliver the best vibrations possible. It’s priced at the higher end of this list but this can be expected given the features it offers.
Pros: Highly stimulating, 15 vibration patterns, 6 vibration levels, hypoallergenic, USB-rechargeable, shower friendly, powerful vibrations
Cons: As with the previous model, the price may scare some people away
Desire Luxury Rechargeable Strapless Strap-On Dildo Vibrator
Luxurious Strapless Strap-on That Stimulates Both G-spots
Nearing the end of the list now, the Desire Luxury Rechargeable Strapless Strap-on is a funky looking toy that packs quite the punch.
This strapless strap on pleases both the receiver as well as the giver with a reasonable shaft. You simply insert one side and then use the other side to give your partner the penetration they’re after.
The shafts are angled in order to stimulate the G-spot of both you and your partner. It also comes with rabbit ears in order to stimulate the wearer’s clit for even more stimulation during use.
It’s not short on variation either as it comes with eight pattern variations as well as twelve speed variations. This allows the stimulation to be switched up for both you and your partner regularly.
The Desire Luxury Rechargeable Strapless Strap-on is 100% waterproof and priced in the middle of the pack.
Pros: Stimulates both you and your partner, G-spot stimulation, 8 vibration patterns and twelve speeds, waterproof
Cons: Takes some pelvic floor muscles to use effectively
Fun Factory Volta
6-Speed Vibe That Simulates Oral
One shy of the final four, the Fun Factory Volta is one we had to squeeze in.
This toy simulates the sensation of a tongue flickering against your clit and lips and is perfect for solo play as well as for use together with your partner. It offers two tongue-like prongs that can be used to direct the stimulation to almost any spot on the vagina.
This toy also offers six speed variations allowing you to build it up slowly. As well as this, you get six patterns to choose from too which allows you to switch up your stimulation or that of your partner.
The Fun Factory Volta is USB rechargeable and comes with a design that’s easy to grip. It’s priced on the slightly higher end of this list but is a great addition to your toy collection to switch things up with.
Pros: Unique sensation, targeted stimulation, USB rechargeable, 6 vibration patterns, 6 vibration speeds
Cons: Not insertable
Adam & Eve Twisted Love Glass Dildo
Beautiful Glass Dildo That’s Highly Textured
This double-sided glass dildo is great to enjoy together with your partner, or even during solo play. It has a longer side that’s great for hitting the G-spot, while the shorter side is tailored towards anal play.
Being made from glass, this toy is both temperature-responsive as well as hypoallergenic and non-porous. This makes it a delight to use and allows you to switch up the stimulation regardless of the fact it doesn’t offer any vibration functionality.
The Adam & Eve Twisted Love Glass Dildo is handmade and priced at the lower end of the list.
Pros: Easy to use, double-sided, stimulates the G-spot, hypoallergenic, temperature-responsive
Cons: Doesn’t offer as much variation as it could
Lovense Hush
Feature-Packed Butt Plug That Can Be Controlled From Anywhere
If you love to give your partner full control of your stimulation, you’re going to love this butt plug! It can be controlled remotely from anywhere on earth which allows you to give your partner control at the click of a button.
This feature works from all around the world, but it’s also great fun when out and about. It adds a lot of fun to your day and is one of the features that makes this toy unique, as it’s controlled using an app on your smartphone.
If you’re ever in the mood to go it alone, then you can let this toy sync to music making the experience even better. It also allows for unlimited pattern variations which makes for quite the variation.
The Lovense Hush is a superb toy and there’s just no way we can list all of the features here. It’s priced averagely compared to the rest of the options on this list.
Pros: Controlled remotely using a smartphone, great for long-distance relationships, syncs to music, unlimited pattern variations
Cons: Only really works very well for anal stimulation
Conclusion
As you can see by this large list, there are a lot of good lesbian sex toys on the market. Hopefully, after going through our list, you’re in a much better position to choose a toy that’s right for you and your partner!
And remember: Stay safe and have fun!
