The Best Fleshlights in 2022

The fleshlight, who doesn’t know this top-class adult toy?! It has become a go-to for guys looking to improve their stamina in the sack, or just have some fun on their alone days. But, one question always seems to come up: How can I choose the best flashlight for me?

There are so many different shapes, sizes, colors and textures that it can be hard choosing the right one for the job. When looking for the best fleshlight to fit your needs, there are a few things you need to take into account. Below we will help you discover what fleshlight will work best for you and discuss just a few of the different options there are.

What is a fleshlight?

If you are unsure of what this much used and approved men’s sex toy is, you have missed a whole lot of fun! A fleshlight is simply a male masturbator (replicated vagina, anal or oral opening) which feels just like the real thing! With the fleshlight, you can get the practice you want, and have fun while you are doing it. These sex toys are made to feel as realistic as possible to ensure you have the most life-like experience achievable.

The name comes from the fact that it looks like a flashlight when stored, but the inside is made to feel as much like the real thing as possible, hence “flesh light”. A truly original idea, this male sex toy may be the best-known one of the bunch!

The Fleshlight is a certain brand of pocket pussy, and the most sold one. Even though these names are often used in the same manner, there is a difference. A pocket pussy is the category of male sex toys the fleshlight falls within, and a fleshlight is simply the name of the brand. If you want to check out other brands of pocket pussy you can view the page on our website on pocket pussies.

How to Choose the Best Fleshlight for Your Needs

When choosing a fleshlight there is a lot to think about and finding the best fleshlight for you isn’t always as easy as it looks. There are certain things that make a big difference, and other differences which are more subtle, yet still important. We will go into each feature one by one to ensure you make the best choice and enjoy your fleshlight as much as possible!

The best thing to do would be to borrow a friend’s or take a model for a test drive but I think we can all understand why this probably isn’t the best idea. Although it may be tempting (or not), it’s best to buy your own and enjoy trying it out on arrival. That’s why we have created this overview!

Texture and intensity

The texture you choose is very important to ensure you choose the best feeling fleshlight for you. And boy, there are a lot of textures! The best fleshlight texture can differ from person to person and is obviously a matter of preference but, how do you go about finding the best feeling flashlight for you?

A few things to remember are that the more texturized the inside is, the more stimulating the sensation will be and the more it will test your endurance. Something else to take into account is the reason for purchase: Are you buying it to improve your stamina or will you primarily be using it for pleasure?

There are a lot of different sleeves, and these will all provide a different texture and level of intensity. However, there are also vibrating ones, which will again increase the intensity of use. Depending on the intensity you are looking for you can select a different sleeve or even vibrating models!

Fleshlight has clear pictures on their site showing you what the inside looks like and this will give you an idea about the stimulation they will provide. This ensures you can make the right choice!

When you take these things into account you should be able to make a good choice regarding the texture. Fleshlight lets you build your own, or you can buy the normal models they have so your choice of texture will be an important one.

Size

Obviously, your penis size is something you should at least take into account when purchasing your fleshlight. However, the size of the toy itself is also something you should think about and may be more important. If you don’t have space to keep a larger model you may be better off getting a smaller one. Luckily, all models show the sizes so this choice should be easy.

Most fleshlights are suitable for most penis-sizes, so unless you are an exception then this shouldn’t be a problem.

Ease of use

Some of the models have vibrators or are fully automated! The ease of use is something to take into account as these things may be exactly what you are looking for, or may be exactly what you don’t want. The way you use, or can use, your new toy may be a make or break thing, this can lead you to the right decision.

Also, some models are easier to clean than others and this can be something to take into account too! No one likes spending a long time cleaning, luckily all fleshlights can be taken apart so they are easily cleaned.

Anal, oral or vaginal?

A question that has troubled men throughout history! This question surfaces once again when selecting your fleshlight and you should think about it before deciding on the model you want to buy! If you want to live out your anal fantasies then a butt version may be better than an oral or vaginal one for example.

The look

There are some out of this world designs that are created to mimic mystical beasts or aliens. There are also see-through models if this is what floats your boat. There are a host of different models and taking your time to browse around and find the best one will make sure you make the best choice you can!

15 Of The Best Fleshlights:

Sex Dolls

If you want a much more varied experience, then a sex doll may be a better purchase for you! Sex dolls come in multiple different varieties and if you are looking for a more “full body stimulation”, a sex doll may be better suited to your needs.

FAQ’s

How to clean your fleshlight?

Cleaning your fleshlight is obviously very important, but the material it’s made out of doesn’t react well to most cleaning products. For this reason, cleaning your fleshlight can be a bit of a challenge even though they have been created for easy cleaning. Luckily, we are here to help!

The fleshlight is very useful, as it can be disassembled into four parts, and the fleshy inside can be removed and cleaned with water. It’s best practice to wipe this part off very well after every use using a wet paper towel/cloth (Warm water please!). Most soaps and anything that contains rubbing alcohol can also have a negative effect on the fleshlight and over time this can cause wear and tear.

So, apart from water, what can I use to wash my fleshlight?

No worries – we have just the thing!

Fleshwash is designed specifically for cleaning your fleshlight and won’t cause any negative effects on the material used. It’s important to keep your fleshlight in good condition and cleaning it is very important too. This is why Fleshwash is the best thing to use when cleaning your fleshlight.

Does my penis size matter when choosing a fleshlight?

Not really. Unless you are an extreme example, most of the fleshlight models will work great for all penis sizes. Most of the models have an insertable length of 8.5 inches, but that doesn’t mean you have to reach the end!

If you are looking for the best fleshlight for a small penis then the three models mentioned above: the Go Torque Ice; the Flight Aviator and the Quickshot: Vantage, are great models to try out. These models are slightly smaller so you can still experience the full stimulation of these models.

You can also try some of the tighter models, even though these are bigger. If they have a tight opening then you can still enjoy the full sensation of the toy. However, as we’ve said, usually you won’t have any problems regarding penis size.

Will other people know what I’m ordering?

This is an understandable question and we know that you may not want your postman or bank knowing what you are ordering. Luckily, fleshlight offers discreet shipping and billing, so there’s nothing to worry about!

Do fleshlights really feel real?

Yes, most do! Some are made more for stimulation purposes, but most do feel very real. The only way you will know for sure is by trying them though!

How to use your fleshlight, some tips:

• Try holding your fleshlight in warm water so it heats up a little. This can improve the sensation you get when using it and will make it feel even more real!
• Lube up! Lubing up will obviously improve the sensation and make the whole experience a lot more pleasurable. This will also avoid any unwanted friction and make everything go a lot smoother.
• Use water based lube! Oil based lubes are not advised as these will break down the material the fleshlights are made out of. Use a good water based lube to ensure you will be able to enjoy your toy for a long time to come.

Author: Timej Bališ

Tim is our "pro" tester of male sex toys. While finding the right partner has never been easy for him, sex toys never let him down. Since the start of his "pro" sex toys tester career, Tim has tested dozens of toys from pocket pussies to cock rings and even cages. Now, he's thrilled to share his knowledge and experience.