If you’re into BDSM or you just love to change things up every once in a while, then this article on the best BDSM toys is the right one for you! We’ve cut straight to the chase and provided a list of over 20 BDSM toys that will satisfy your heart’s desire.
26 Best BDSM Toys:
Bondage Boutique Black Bound to Please Under Mattress Restraint
The Restraint That’s Flexible and Comfortable
First on the list is the Bondage Boutique Black Bound to Please Under Mattress Restraint and it’s a welcome addition to say the least.
This is a great addition to any bedroom, whether you’re a BDSM lover or not. These restraints can spice up your evening in a heartbeat and make for a new bedroom experience.
It can be used on almost all bed sizes due to the adjustable straps and fasten with Velcro to ensure a comfortable and flexible fit. It’s a fun toy to spice things up and keep things interesting.
Pros: Can be used on almost all bed sizes; Fun toy to spice things up without it being too extreme; Comfortable and flexible wrist fit
Cons: The Velcro can be harmful to lace lingerie
Sportsheets Expandable Spreader Bar and Cuffs
The Spreader Bar for Bondage Lovers
Second on the list, the Sportsheets Expandable Spreader Bar and Cuffs is a great toy that’s different to most.
This spreader bar is great if you are into bondage! It’s adjustable and can ensure a stretch that’s tailored to your exact mindset. Together with the soft ankle-cuffs, this is the perfect toy for both advanced users and beginners.
The Sportsheet Expandable Spreader Bar and Cuffs come with a quick-release mechanism which makes it a safe toy to use. It can also be broken up into 3 pieces to allow for easy transportation and storage.
Pros: Adjustable spreader bar that can be custom fit; Soft ankle cuffs ensure comfort; Quick release mechanism for safe use; Easy to store and travel with
Cons: The Velcro loses its function over time
Bondage Boutique Soft Bondage Rope 10 Meter
The Soft Bondage Rope That’s Both Versatile and Comfortable
The Bondage Boutique Soft Bondage Rope 10 Meter is a vital addition to any BDSM-lovers bedroom repertoire as you just can’t do without it!
This bondage rope boasts a 10-meter length and is soft to the touch. The length ensures you can use the rope for even the more extravagant bondage and the soft touch makes it a comfortable experience without the risk of rope burn or bruising!
This rope is perfect for all experience levels and is a wonderful addition to any bedroom to switch things up with every once in a while.
Pros: 10-meter long rope; Soft rope to prevent bruising and rope burn; Great rope for both beginners and advanced users
Cons: The rope is a little slippery for some of the more traditional rope art
Sportsheets Sex Swing Door Jam Kit
The BDSM Toy That Allows for Added Manoeuvrability and Variation
This simple sex swing will make it possible for you to enjoy even the most adventurous positions. Anywhere there’s a door and at any time!
The Sportsheets Sex Swing Door Jam Kit is a sex swing that can be installed anywhere there’s a stable door. This makes this sex swing easy to install without much additional hassle.
It’s also a fun sex swing to use, allowing you to experiment with new positions that you may not yet have tried. If you’re looking for quick and easy variation, then this is the sex swing for you!
Suitable for almost all body sizes and weight’s, this is a versatile sex swing indeed!
Pros: Easy to install; Allows for different positions and variations; Suitable for almost all body sizes
Cons: A little fiddly to get into
Bondage Boutique Black Rose Faux Fur Lined Wrist Cuffs
The Handcuffs for BDSM Enthusiasts
If you’re looking for some handcuffs, then this is the BDSM toy for you!
The Bondage Boutique Black Rose Faux Fur Lined Wrist Cuffs is a set of versatile handcuffs which can be used in a plethora of ways. The luxury feel and design of this toy only add to the experience.
These handcuffs are extremely soft to promote comfort when used. Not only this but they are also fully adjustable to accommodate almost all people.
Overall a simple BDSM toy that is accessible to anyone and fits any experience level.
Pros: Versatile handcuffs; Luxury look and feel; Soft and comfortable; Suitable for almost all sizes and for all experience levels
Cons: The chain is a little short
Lovehoney Satin and Leather Spanking Paddle
The Spanking Paddle That’s Made to Deliver
Another spanking paddle included on this list. Even though it’s a basic model, the Lovehoney Satin and Leather Spanking Paddle is still very exciting.
This spanking paddle is a basic BDSM toy that’s unmissable in the bedroom. It’s got two different textures, one on either side which enables added variation of stimulation when both spanking and teasing.
This is an easy to use, easy to store BDSM toy that’s a must-have if you want to experiment with BDSM.
Pros: Unmissable addition to the bedroom for a BDSM enthusiast; Different texture on each side adds to the variation; Easy to use and accessible to everyone
Cons: Not as variation-rich as some of the other BDSM toys on here
Bondage Boutique Slap ‘n’ Tickle 10 Inch Rubber Flogger
The BDSM Toy That Mixes the Whip With the Spanking Paddle
A variation on the last product, and one that delivers the same high-level of stimulation, the Bondage Boutique Slap ‘n’ Tickle 10 Inch Rubber Flogger is a wonderful addition to the list.
This combines the spanking paddle and a spanking whip to deliver the best of both worlds. Tease and caress with the front or flick your wrist for a soft but satisfying sting.
Another BDSM toy that’s extremely accessible, small and easy to store and carry, the Bondage Boutique Slap ‘n’ Tickle is one that couldn’t be left out.
Pros: The best of both the spanking paddle and the whip; Extremely accessible BDSM toy suitable for all people; Easy to store and take with you
Cons: If you don’t store it well it can tangle
Fetish Fantasy Series Pleasure Tape
The Tape That Can Be Used Hassle-free
Another great tool for BDSM. There’s no better way to tie someone up than with the tape!
This easy-to-use pleasure tape is a sex toy that is a welcome addition to almost any bedroom. It can spice things up easily and can be used anywhere and at any time.
The Fetish Fantasy Series Pleasure Tape only sticks to itself, so no more arm-marks, pulled out hair or problems with the furnishings. A great feature of a great product!
Pros: Easy to use and extremely accessible; Can be used anywhere and at any time; Only sticks to itself so no problems with hair being pulled out or furniture being ruined
Cons: Can’t do as extravagant bondage with this tape as with a rope
The Anal Hook
The Hook That Will Keep Your Sub in Line
One of the more adventurous models on this list, The Anal Hook is a pleasurable toy for all anal lovers who also like to delve into the BDSM realm every once in a while.
The Anal Hook is a stimulating BDSM toy that will spice things up to a completely different level. The hook is inserted anally (duh), and ropes can be attached to perform a whole range of bondage acts.
Probably not the ideal BDSM toy for beginners but certainly an exciting addition to this list!
Pros: Extremely stimulating and adventurous BDSM toy; Durable and hypoallergenic; Can be used in conjunction with ropes to get really adventurous
Cons: Not ideal for BDSM-beginners
Lovehoney Tease Me Adjustable Nipple Clamps
The Nipple Clamps Made to Tease
These beautiful clamps are a new type of BDSM toy on this list, but nipple clamps are a BDSM favorite, so they probably won’t be the only set of clamps on this list.
The Lovehoney Tease Me Adjustable Nipple Clamps are not only adjustable but nickel-free too. That’s not all though…
They also come with silicone tips to improve the comfort of the experience and prevent any marks or painful experiences. These nipple clamps are great for all experience levels due to the soft but firm clamping sensation they provide.
Pros: Nickle-free nipple clamps; Extra comfort due to the silicone tips; Great for both beginners and more advanced users
Cons: Can catch on by accident due to the size
Stainless Steel Cat Nails
The BDSM Toy That Teases and Stimulates
An alternative toy that belongs to a category of its own, the Stainless-Steel Cat Nails are a sensual toy with endless implementations.
Gently tease and caress with these cat nails or go a little harder and really turn up the stimulation. Whatever way you like it, this toy will be a welcome addition to your toy collection.
This toy comes in two different sizes and is easy to use for all experience levels.
Pros: Quite a unique toy; Can be used in many ways; Comes in two different sizes
Cons: Can be painful if too much pressure is applied
Adam & Eve Scarlet Couture Bed Bondage System
The Full Bondage System for Those Serious About Bondage
If you’re into bondage or just want to experiment with tying your partner up, then this is the best way to do it!
The Adam & Eve Scarlet Couture Bed Bondage System is an easy to install bondage system that can be used on almost all bed sizes. It comes with multiple adjustable straps and cuffs, making it possible to tie your partner up in all sorts of positions.
The Velcro cuffs are adjustable and comfortable to ensure ease of use and a great experience too!
Pros: Accessible to all experience levels; Can be used on almost all beds and body sizes; Comfortable and adjustable straps and cuffs
Cons: It does not fit all king-sized beds
Bondage Boutique Black Rose Faux Fur Lined Collar and Lead Set
The Collar and Lead Great for Training Your Sub
This collar and leash set is great if you like to spice things up with some role-playing and domination.
The Bondage Boutique Black Rose Faux Fur Lined Collar and Lead set is easy to use and easy to store. It’s a great BDSM toy that’s accessible to everyone and is great to switch things up with.
This collar and lead set is ultra-soft which ensures comfortable use and the collar is adjustable to suit almost any neck size!
Pros: Easy to use; Easy to store; Accessible to everyone and adjustable in size; Soft and comfortable design
Cons: The lead is a bit flimsy compared to the collar
DOMINIX Deluxe Chastity Cock Cage
The Cock Cage That Will Leave You in Complete Control
Another completely different BDSM toy, this DOMINIX Deluxe Chasity Cock Cage will leave your sub exactly where you want him.
This cock cage will leave you completely in control and the open end allows for teasing and stimulation. This means your partner will be completely at your mercy!
Its simple design is easy to use and comes with a padlock and 3 keys to ensure you have complete control. This isn’t a BDSM toy for beginners but is a great addition to your toy collection if you are a little more experienced.
Pros: Complete control over your sub; Open end allows for teasing and stimulation; Simple design; Comes with a lock
Cons: Not a great BDSM toy for beginners
Disguise Open Mouth Hood with Padded Blindfold
The Hood That Leaves You Free to Do What You Like Without Anyone Watching
A blindfold with a difference, the Disguise Open Mouth Hood with Padded Blindfold sparks the imagination.
With only a hole by the mouth area, this BDSM toy blocks off certain senses and allows you or your partner to live out their fantasies without the other knowing what you are getting up to.
Trust is needed, but it’s a great toy for beginners in the BDSM scene. A basic toy that’s versatile in use.
Pros: Blocks off senses to make the sensation more stimulating; Easy to use; Great for beginners as well as advanced users
Cons: Not ideal if you’re afraid of closed space (or darkness)
Bondage Boutique Black Faux Leather Medium Silicone Ball Gag
The Original Gag That’s Great for Bondage
Anyone into BDSM has thought about using a gag before, so why not try now?
The Bondage Boutique Black Faux Leather Medium Silicone Ball Gag is a great BDSM toy to spice things up. Leave your sub gagged and unable to speak while you can live out your heart’s desire.
This gag is fully adjustable to fit almost all people and the 5.25-inch ball will fill a mouth perfectly.
This toy can be used by both beginners and more experienced users and is a must-have for all BDSM enthusiasts.
Pros: Adjustable to fit most people; Ball fills all mouths; Accessible to both beginners and more experienced users
Cons: It tends to dry out the mouth a little
STRICT Armbinder
The Restraint That Differs From the Standard
If you’re looking for a new way to restrain your sub, then the STRICT Armbinder is the best BDSM toy for you.
This toy will completely restrain anyone so you can tease and titillate in any way you see fit. It’s completely adjustable to ensure a comfortable fit for anyone as well!
This BDSM toy is suitable for both advanced and new users and will really spice things up in the bedroom.
Pros: Completely restrain your sub; Adjustable straps ensure it fits almost anyone; Suitable for both advanced and first-time users
Cons: Can’t be adjusted lengthwise
Keep Em Bound Neck to Wrist Restraints
Versatile Restraint with Front & Back Access
Next is the Keep Em Bound Neck to Wrist Restraints which are great for subduing a partner and are a great addition to any toy collection.
This restraint allows its user to restrain their partner’s arms and hands either in front of them or behind them. This allows for a range of different positions while still limiting the movement of the restrained partner.
It is fully adjustable and allows for various different heights of restraint. This further helps facilitate a large selection of different positions. It is made of a high-quality leather and metal combination which ensures it can be used for a long time without damage.
The Keep Em Bound Neck to Wrist Restraints is one of the best value BDSM toys on this list!
Pros: Great value, versatile, high-quality, great for beginners
Cons: Not great for advanced users
Obedience Extreme Sex Bench with Restraint Straps
Full BDSM Bench with Entire Body Restraints
The Obedience Extreme Sex Bench with Restraint Straps is next and it’s a fully decked out BDSM bench with many features.
This BDSM bench is for the die-hard BDSM enthusiasts out there. It allows you to strap your partner in and restrains the entire body to ensure there’s as little movement as possible. The U-shaped head rest ensures maximum comfort while also still allowing access to the face during use.
If you’re looking for something that can help improve access from behind, then this is the perfect model for you. It also supports up to 400 pounds which allow for use by most people.
The Obedience Extreme Sex Bench is one of the more expensive models on this list but given its size, it’s still considered great value by most.
Pros: Restrains entire body, U-shaped headrest, 400lb weight limit, great for enthusiasts
Cons: The price makes it less suitable for beginners to BDSM
Bondage Boutique Red Hot Passion Bedroom Bondage Kit (6 Piece)
The Full Bondage Kit That’s Great for First Timers
A great model for new BDSM adventurers, the Bondage Boutique Red Hot Passion Bedroom Bondage Kit (6 Piece) is a wonderful introductory model with a low barrier to entry.
This basic BDSM set offers all the things that a couple who’s new to BDSM will need. With stimulating flogger and the much-needed restraints, this kit has it all!
Pros: Great for beginners; Complete set; Suitable for all sizes
Cons: May not be as stimulating to more experienced BDSM enthusiasts
Coveted Bondage Collar with Nipple Clamps
The Toy That Combines the Bondage Collar With Nipple Clamps
An elegant addition to the bedroom, but still a great toy to switch things up with!
The Coverted Bondage Collar with Nipple Clamps provides you with the best of both worlds. With both a collar and nipple clamps, you can be sure it’s going to be a great experience.
Both the collar and the nipple clamps are adjustable, so you can not only choose the size collar you need but also the stimulation you want to receive from the clamps!
Pros: Combination of both a collar and nipple clamps; Adjustable collar to fit different sized necks; Adjustable clamps so you can tailor the experience to your needs
Cons: Collar only fits neck sizes of 14 to 18 inches
Bondage Boutique Extreme Expandable Spreader Bar with Leather Cuffs
The Spreader Bar Made With Variation in Mind
Another variation to a normal restraint, this will have your sub bending over backwards (or should I say forwards) for you.
The Bondage Boutique Extreme Expandable Spreader Bar with Leather Cuffs allows for you and your sub to take on a whole range of positions. Both the cuffs and the bar are adjustable to cater for almost all sizes.
This comfortable yet sturdy restraint allows for as little movement as possible which in turn provides a great BDSM experience.
Pros: Allows for a wide range of positions; Fully adjustable cuffs and bar; Comfortable yet sturdy restraint that limits movement
Cons: The padlocks are slightly fiddly
Fifty Shades of Grey Tease Soft Feather Tickler
The Tickler That Keeps Things Simple
Another fifty-shades model, and a BDSM toy with a little more finesse, this tickler allows you to tease your partner in a way they’ve never experienced before.
The Fifty Shades of Grey Tease Soft Feather Tickler is a toy that was made to tease. It’s a high-quality toy with feathers on the end made to tease and caress your partner with.
Accessible to beginners, this toy is simple yet versatile.
Pros: Highly stimulating; High-quality toy; Simple yet versatile
Cons: Doesn’t offer as much variation as some of the other best BDSM toys
Bondage Boutique Steel Vaginal Speculum
The BDSM Toy for Sensational Role-playing
This toy takes role-playing to a whole new level and provides a great toy for doctor and nurse role-playing.
The Bondage Boutique Steel Vaginal Speculum provides easy access to the G-spot and can enable a much higher level of stimulation. Not only that, but it’s an exciting toy to incorporate in your bedroom role-playing.
This toy is easy to insert and easy to use and can add some much-needed variation in the bedroom.
Pros: Great for role-playing; Provides easy access to the G-spot and other pleasure spots; Easy to insert and great for variation
Cons: Can be a bit tricky to tighten
Stainless Steel Adjustable Pussy Clamp
The Pussy Clamp That Will Leave the Pussy Completely Subdued
Last on the list, the Stainless Steel Adjustable Pussy Clamp is certainly not one to be left out.
If there hasn’t been enough variation in this huge list already, wait till you check out this vagina clamp. It makes it possible for you or your partner to get complete access to the vagina and leaves if vulnerable to teasing and stimulation.
A BDSM toy that’s accessible to most and one that will certainly allow for some much-needed variation in your sex life!
Pros: Great for teasing and stimulating; Adds much-needed variation; Get complete access and view of your sub’s vagina
Cons: Can be a little fiddly to get on
As you can see, there’s a huge amount of BDSM toys for you to choose from. It’s not always easy to find the right ones, but we hope that after seeing this huge list, you have got a better idea about what your options are, and which kinds of toys seem interesting to you. And if you need some advice on getting into the BDSM, check this article from Bustle.
Always remember to stay safe and above all have fun!
